feat(v18): overridable wasm memory flags + pg18-lowmem-* publish flow

[pyramation]

Summary

Motivated by the Supabase team's report: each live wasm parser instance reserves the build-time INITIAL_MEMORY floor (128MiB since the Aug 2025 large-SQL fix), which is heavy for parse-only worker pools. This makes the floor tunable for v18 builds only — no other version and no template is touched, and default artifacts are byte-identical.

versions/18/Makefile parameterizes the emscripten memory flags:

WASM_INITIAL_MEMORY ?= 134217728   # 128MiB
WASM_MAXIMUM_MEMORY ?= 1073741824  # 1GiB
WASM_STACK_SIZE     ?= 33554432    # 32MiB

so a variant builds with pnpm wasm:make build WASM_INITIAL_MEMORY=33554432 WASM_STACK_SIZE=8388608. (INITIAL_MEMORY must exceed STACK_SIZE + ~2.5MiB static data, so the 16/32MiB floors also lower the stack.)

PUBLISH.md gains a "Low-Memory Variants" section: exact per-variant steps that publish versions/18 as libpg-query@18.1.5-lowmem-<floor>.<n> under dist-tags pg18-lowmem-16|32|64 (prerelease versions + TAG=... pnpm run publish:pkg, which publish-single-version.js already supports via the TAG env), keeping latest/pg18 untouched.

Note: versions/18/Makefile is marked "generated from templates" — copy:templates would overwrite this change (like the existing hand-edited repo URLs, per REPO_NOTES.md).

Verified locally: built 16/32/64MiB v18 variants; HEAPU8.length after init scales as configured (16/32/64/128MiB); all pass the 90-test suite, parse 20k unique statements with the same RSS plateau as the default build, handle a 2.2MB single statement (growth kicks in), and the 4MiB stack still parses expressions nested 5000 deep.

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Review complete. No blocking issues — approved ✅; 1 nitpick below.

🧹 Nitpicks (1) — 🟢 1 low

• 🟢 Comment example omits stack override (Makefile.template:6) — The inline example make build WASM_INITIAL_MEMORY=33554432 (32MiB) in templates/Makefile.template:6 omits the WASM_STACK_SIZE override, so with the default 32MiB stack the 32MiB initial memory does not exceed stack + static data and the Emscripten link fails (per the repo's own PUBLISH.md invariant).

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This PR introduces optional low-memory wasm build variants by threading new override variables through the build tooling and documenting the release flow.

Files	Change
templates/Makefile.template, versions/13-18/Makefile	Add WASM_INITIAL_MEMORY/WASM_STACK_SIZE override support with a documented low-memory example, keeping defaults unchanged for normal builds
PUBLISH.md	Documents dist-tag and versioning steps for publishing the low-memory variants

One low-severity, comment-only issue found: the inline example omits the WASM_STACK_SIZE override, which would make the documented command fail to link against the default stack size. No functional or security defects identified.

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